[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.laodzan.cz\/hadejte-se-spravne-obzvlaste-se-zenou\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.laodzan.cz\/hadejte-se-spravne-obzvlaste-se-zenou\/","headline":"H\u00e1dejte se spr\u00e1vn\u011b \u2013 obzvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b se \u017eenou","name":"H\u00e1dejte se spr\u00e1vn\u011b \u2013 obzvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b se \u017eenou","description":"\u017deny nerozum\u00ed mu\u017e\u016fm a mu\u017ei naopak \u017een\u00e1m. Mo\u017en\u00e1 je to i dob\u0159e a mo\u017en\u00e1 i d\u00edky tomu nem\u00e1 cenu, h\u00e1dat se s va\u0161\u00ed polovi\u010dkou za ka\u017edou cenu a kv\u016fli ka\u017ed\u00e9 mali\u010dkosti. A to hlavn\u011b z jednoho prost\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu \u2013 nikdy nem\u00e1te \u0161anci vyv\u00e1znout z boji\u0161t\u011b jako v\u00edt\u011bz, kter\u00fd si to \u010dasem nebude muset u jeho...","datePublished":"2023-06-02","dateModified":"2023-06-02","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.laodzan.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"","url":"https:\/\/www.laodzan.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/15c4177f6d86975c976af12ba80b10af7add2f97f8786f8cf1596253472c0ea7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/15c4177f6d86975c976af12ba80b10af7add2f97f8786f8cf1596253472c0ea7?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"laodzan.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.laodzan.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a339737_w2284_t1552832627.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.laodzan.cz\/wp-content\/uploads\/img_a339737_w2284_t1552832627.jpg","height":0,"width":0},"url":"https:\/\/www.laodzan.cz\/hadejte-se-spravne-obzvlaste-se-zenou\/","wordCount":500,"articleBody":"\u017deny nerozum\u00ed mu\u017e\u016fm a mu\u017ei naopak \u017een\u00e1m. Mo\u017en\u00e1 je to i dob\u0159e a mo\u017en\u00e1 i d\u00edky tomu nem\u00e1 cenu, h\u00e1dat se s va\u0161\u00ed polovi\u010dkou za ka\u017edou cenu a kv\u016fli ka\u017ed\u00e9 mali\u010dkosti. A to hlavn\u011b z jednoho prost\u00e9ho d\u016fvodu \u2013 nikdy nem\u00e1te \u0161anci vyv\u00e1znout z boji\u0161t\u011b jako v\u00edt\u011bz, kter\u00fd si to \u010dasem nebude muset u jeho partnerky n\u011bjak\u00fdm zp\u016fsobem \u201evy\u017eehlit\u201c.\tH\u00e1dka s partnerkou \u2013 nen\u00ed jako s kamar\u00e1dem\tU va\u0161ich nejbli\u017e\u0161\u00edch kamar\u00e1d\u016f dob\u0159e v\u00edte, co si v\u016f\u010di nim m\u016f\u017eete dovolit vyslovit a h\u00e1jit v\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1zor i za cenu, \u017ee se jim to l\u00edbit nebude a konflikt bude naopak gradovat. S va\u0161\u00ed partnerkou se v\u0161ak do v\u011bt\u0161\u00edch konflikt\u016f nepou\u0161t\u011bjte a rad\u011bji se sna\u017ete z h\u00e1dky vyt\u011b\u017eit pouze jej\u00ed my\u0161lenku, nikoli ji rozeb\u00edrat do hloubky a vytahovat star\u00e9 a vedlej\u0161\u00ed z\u00e1le\u017eitosti.\t\u017deny toti\u017e vyu\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed minul\u00fdch chyb a pou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00ed jich jako zbra\u0148, se kterou cht\u011bj\u00ed zv\u00edt\u011bzit, co m\u016f\u017ee hr\u00e1t ve v\u00e1\u0161 neprosp\u011bch a dostat v\u00e1s do role bezbrann\u00e9ho jedince. Sice se to ned\u011bl\u00e1, ale v\u011b\u0159te tomu, \u017ee kdy\u017e se \u017eena nazlob\u00ed, kon\u00e1 se jedna velk\u00e1 bou\u0159ka, kterou je lep\u0161\u00ed p\u0159e\u010dkat s d\u00e1vkou trp\u011blivosti.\t\tCo je z\u00e1kladem \u201edobr\u00e9\u201c h\u00e1dky je p\u0159ipustit si, \u017ee nastal probl\u00e9m, kter\u00e9ho jste sou\u010d\u00e1st\u00ed a uznat sob\u011b i partnerce, \u017ee jste schopn\u00ed p\u0159ijat zodpov\u011bdnost a n\u00e1sledky.\tJak se h\u00e1dat, kdy\u017e s partnerkou nesouhlas\u00edte?\tM\u016f\u017ee se st\u00e1t, \u017ee se s v\u00e1mi va\u0161e partnerka pust\u00ed do boje bez toho, abyste to o\u010dek\u00e1vali a je\u0161t\u011b ke v\u0161emu s t\u00edm, \u017ee s n\u00ed nebudete v\u016fbec souhlasit. N\u011bkdy jednodu\u0161e neovlivn\u00edte to, co se odehr\u00e1v\u00e1 v \u017eensk\u00e9 mysli a rovn\u011b\u017e ani to, jak se k probl\u00e9mu a jeho \u0159e\u0161en\u00ed stav\u00ed takov\u00e1 \u017eena.\tV\u017edy je v\u0161ak leh\u010d\u00ed, nechat probl\u00e9m v jeho nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edm vzplanut\u00ed pouze probl\u00e9mem \u2013 nikoli \u017eivotn\u00ed katastrofou. V\u0161echny h\u00e1dky se pouze zhor\u0161\u00ed a zn\u00e1sob\u00ed t\u00edm, \u017ee jich budete \u0159e\u0161it v tom nejv\u011bt\u0161\u00edm afektu a bez toho, abyste u nich mysleli hlavou a byli v klidu.\tNen\u00ed \u0161patn\u00e9, pokud se s partnerkou k dan\u00e9mu probl\u00e9mu vr\u00e1t\u00edte a\u017e ve chv\u00edli, kdy se oba uklidn\u00edte. Nem\u00e1 p\u0159ece cenu obhajovat se st\u016fj co st\u016fj jenom proto, \u017ee si mysl\u00edte, \u017ee m\u00e1te pravdu vy. \u017deny jsou citliv\u00e9 bytosti, kter\u00e9 ob\u010das pot\u0159ebuj\u00ed logick\u00e9 vysv\u011btlen\u00ed a uzn\u00e1n\u00ed, m\u00edsto toho, aby s nimi mu\u017ei soupe\u0159ili a m\u011bli pot\u0159ebu vyhr\u00e1vat i v discipl\u00edn\u011b, jakou je h\u00e1dka.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                        4.4\/5 - (7 votes)        "},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"H\u00e1dejte se spr\u00e1vn\u011b \u2013 obzvl\u00e1\u0161t\u011b se \u017eenou","item":"https:\/\/www.laodzan.cz\/hadejte-se-spravne-obzvlaste-se-zenou\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]